There is no default in life. Everyone has their own journeys, their own experiences, and struggles. Mine takes shape with the constant confusion of self-identity, sexuality, and gender. It is not cut and dry like for those who have the luxury to not contemplate these things. Mine is like a ball of yarn, it starts off clean, but becomes more difficult to untangle the further it unravels. By creating a narrative of my own realities, perhaps then another can feel confident enough to share theirs. Or at least open the eyes for those who watch from the outside.